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Transforming Couples Lives
“Before therapy, no one could have convinced me that talking with my wife about my affair was even possible, much less useful. I was adamant that talking about it was nowhere I wanted to go. I now know that it is the talking that allows for the healing. You have taught us to do that, to use our words, ‘safely’ and ‘intentionally’.”
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We are wired to connect
Couples do most of the damage to their connection when each person is “hijacked” by the brain’s survival imperative to “protect only this separate person”. Our work involves helping you learn to co-create the safety and trust that your nervous system needs to process challenging content with your partner and still stay in connection.
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Choosing Love
Choosing the Upward Trend rather than indulging in the downward pull. We are routinely faced with a choice to live our highest ideals and potential or to be pulled back into the past and the habits that keep us stuck in reactivity and conflict. Practice noticing the difference.
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"Skilled & Effective Guidance for Couples in Distress"
Intensive Couples Therapy grounded in mindfulness, neuroscience & attachment
Couples Specialists
We are couples specialists. We teach and guide couples from a place of humility as well as ongoing immersion in the evolving and exciting field of couples therapy. We have the skills, the experience and the passion to effectively guide you back into connection and aliveness with your partner. Why work with a specialist?
Read MoreCouples Counseling
We are all wired from birth to thrive when our needs for safety, nurturance and connection are met. We “magically” meet each others needs when we are “in love”. Couples in distress have realized their partner is now the person who wounds, rather than the person who has their back. Can this really be repaired?
Read MoreCouples Intensives
Our Couples Intensives are based on Encounter Centered Couples Therapy. They are personalized retreats & a powerful way for couples to reconnect, even after a significant rupture. Intensives effectively jumpstart the healing process and get couples to a place that would otherwise take 3-6 months.
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This short video is a really fabulous teaching on neuro-plasticity, the ability of the...
A very cute short clip by Marital Researcher John...
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