"Skilled & Effective Guidance for Couples in Distress"

Intensive Couples Therapy grounded in mindfulness, neuroscience & attachment

Couples Specialists

We are couples connection specialists. We have the skills, the experience and the passion to effectively guide you back into connection and aliveness with your partner. It is huge joy & privilege to be able to inspire couples to do the work of transforming their relationships. Why work with a relationship specialist?

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Couples Counseling

We are all wired from birth to thrive when our needs for safety, nurturance and connection are met. We “magically” meet each others needs when we are “in love”. Couples in distress have realized their partner is now the person who wounds, rather than the person who has their back. Can this really be repaired?

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Couples Intensives

Our Couples Intensives are based on Encounter Centered Couples Therapy. They are personalized retreats & a  powerful way for couples to reconnect, even after a significant rupture. Intensives effectively jumpstart the healing process and get couples to a place that would otherwise take 3-6 months.

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Brene Brown on Empathy

A great little cartoon that is both funny and profound. Check out the many other great...

Stephen Porges: The Polyvagal Theory

Stephen Porges: The Polyvagal Theory This December 2015 interview with Stephen Porges on...

It’s not about the nail.

Poignant and hysterical. Hard to imagine how they both keep a straight face during this...

The Power of Connection.

The Power of Connection. TED Talk by Hedy Schleifer, our mentor and the creator of...

Hedy Schleifer describing Crossing the Bridge

Hedy Schleifer describing Crossing the Bridge and the art of hosting and visiting your...

Coping with Infidelity

Coping with Infidelity – Q & A with Michele Weiner-Davis, the author of Divorce...

The New Frontier of Sex & Intimacy.

The New Frontier of Sex & Intimacy. TED Talk by Sue Johnson, the founder of...

How Your Childhood Affects Your Adult Relationships.

How Your Childhood Affects Your Adult Relationships. Narrated by Oprah. Demonstrates a...

Stanford’s Robert Sapolsky On Depression

Stanford’s Robert Sapolsky On Depression.  Sapolsky explains why depression is the...

How can I help make my marriage stronger?

How can I help make my marriage stronger? video message from Hedy Schleifer on embracing...

The Backwards Brain Bicycle

This short video is a really fabulous teaching on neuro-plasticity, the ability of the...

Porcupine Sex

A very cute short clip by Marital Researcher John...

Why do we sleep?

Why do we sleep?  TED Talk by a Neuroscientist. Engaging talk on the importance of sleep...

The Great Porn Experiment

The Great Porn Experiment is a TED Talk about how Porn stimulates addictive reward...